Gonzales has actually marketed her services on Care.com. Livermore authorities ask anyone who utilized the woman's services to call 925-294-7531.
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I have an infant this age. How very scary. I likewise have electronic cameras throughout the home (in and out). When I have someone watching my son, I tell them that there are cams in and out of your house for security, and that I monitor them from work, and so does the father of my kid. It is truly tough to obtain to them, and you would literally see the person who's aiming to turn them off, or break them. I hope that by being open they will not attempt snicking around, or harm the baby understanding that the 2nd any of the cams appears to suddenly quit working, one of us, or the cops is wanting to be right there. Better safe than sorry. Who knows. She's obviously immature.
She should be sanitized! Then go to prison for attempts MURDER for Twenty Years. Maybe a few of her cellmates can do the same to her for her to feel the agony of suffocation. Can you think of if she replicated exactly what HELL her child would go through and due to the fact that our system is screwed up she would not get charged due to the fact that it would be her kid.
Listen up stated it time and time once again a camera just catches perp after the damage is done and a background check only suggests they haven't been caught. I just do not have the cash but I have actually been saying because the 90s when in the very first and military seen and read of these cases in addition to seniors in nursing homes just have the workers take a polygraph before the job throughout the task after the task and at random which will be specified and signed repeatedly in the interview... Its constantly the fear of having to take one at any time as well as a urinalysis that makes individuals act right not the test itself. Always those that attempt to beat any system however those are the rare few that never ever get captured the fortunate 3 % we need to cope with and capture the rest prior to they ever start...
Simply one more reason not to leave your children with random people, even if they assert to be a baby-sitter and come up clean on a background check. If we ever had kids that she would stay at house and raise them, prior to my spouse and I got married we agreed that. If we ever divided as payment for her staying home with our kids, I signed a prenup that ensures her a comfortable life. I likewise "pay" her to stay home with them by putting money into an inspecting a account that is exclusively owned by her that I have no access to so in addition to the protection that the prenup manages her she likewise has money to invest, save or do whatever with simply as she would if she was working outside the house. She obviously still has access to my examining account and I pay all the bills out of my account. She pays for nothing. I didn't tell my spouse this before we had the discussion about kids but I would not have actually wed her, or any female, that had not been okay with staying at home and raising our kids. I make far more money than my better half ever would as a teacher so it makes zero sense for me to stay at home with them while she works. My wage affords my children and her a extremely comfy and privileged life. If the tables were reversed and she had the prospective to earn much more than me I would be all right with staying home and raising our kids. The point was that we were not wanting to leave them with a 3rd party, ever. Hopefully the hag in the story will get some jailhouse justice for abusing this baby.
Did Care guarantee these people have no criminal record? Why blame Care if they don't guarantee that? BTW lets SAY CARE has 100 % of their rap sheet or w/e record, then you individuals will be SHRIEKING PERSONAL PRIVACY OMG PRIVACY OMG THEY HAVE ALL OUR DATA ACCURATE DATA OMG... World is full of hypocrites... I get it relief stress I get it...
We used Care.com on several occasions for childcare and each and every time was a bad experience. I get it, it's merely a location anyone can sing up and probably get worked with. It's not necessarily the fault of the website. However I believe it is. If you're putting yourself out there with a name like "care dot com" and you're not vetting every one of your caretakers then you are setting yourself up for failure. I travel all the time and own my own company. My better half works a 9-5 type job. Since I always had to travel and we didn't want daycare for our child I took her with. I registered for care.com and all I ever got was grief. Constantly late, constantly careless, mobile phones were more vital than my daughter...possible abuse...the list continues. When we traveled, I finally went through a procedure of hiring a nanny...and she went with us. It was enjoyable because she's athletic and attractive like me so it made my spouse constantly question. I 'd constantly tease her whilst on the road."why didn't I answer the phone honey?... Oh, I was in a meeting...yah, a conference."Thankfully my partner is just as hot and well educated. Plus, she has a great sense of humor.
I had a legal alien hovering over my land simply last Wednesday... I do not trust them in any case!
This little gal is too adorable to have done such a thing...incredible.
If these individuals handle and lie to cover up their tracks and unethical pasts, background checks can only go so far especially. They can be genuine two dealt with, pretend to be really caring of your child until the second you close the door to drive and leave out the driveway and they are currently pushing or body knocking your kid, or making death risks to your defenseless kid. The covert webcam thing must be a backup and appear to always work... I 'd state it's the only way to know how they really behave when you are not there.
I would imagine that the background checks that Care.com provides are simply as useful as those offered by, say, Uber?"Oh look, they provide background checks on their employees!""Well then it HAS to be safe? "
In all probability, she didn't have a criminal background- yet. There's got to be a very first time and for this girl, this is it.
Type of my point. A background check can in no way identify what remains in the mind or the heart of the individual in question. It's still a crap shot in either case about whether that individual will all of a sudden break or go bad, specifically in the climate where we reside in now.
I actually question I would have had the self control to inform her to leave and then call the cops if I had been the mommy finding that video. She probably would have left my home in an ambulance.
And exactly what is it Care.com believes it would find in a criminal background check on a Twenty Years old girl? You do not need to have a criminal background nor have ever had cause to abuse a kid as is explained, all you have to remain in inexperienced. Just how much experience, perseverance and instinct does a 20 year old have with a child who doesn't stop weeping anyhow? I'm not defending her I'm simply stating it can happen even with a background check. What in the world occurred to all those nice old women with experience who took care of children? You understand, the patient dear things who have taken care of lots of babies in their lifetime? There are a lot of wonderful young care providers of kids but its tough to understand exactly who they will turn out to be.
Suffocating an infant up until they do not have the air to cry is an appropriate reaction? Hopefully you never ever recreate.
When you take an action to intentionally strangle or asphyxiate somebody it is to stop them from breathing. Shaken infant syndrome isn't really done by innocent individuals, the infant is innocent. It is popular to Cops, Physicians and Advocates that it is a power and control implies to hurt somebody. Abusers typically do this over and over to demonstrate exactly what they are capable of "see I let you live!" Forensics can tell by bruising of numerous attempts making some pass out and let them concern to do it again., if she had any concern for the babay she would not have done that or thrown it over her shoulder face up.. Quit making reasons for abusers.
While I think she needs to be put in prison for this, I have one question. Because this is a "discussion" (her and the kid) and this is clearly not "public", is a recording of this type legal? Why do I ask? Well, you cannot record telephone discussions in many states without both celebrations being informed and consenting, so if they taped her voice, wouldn't this be against the law (unless she consented in some way)?
Please note that I'm not supporting this lady, however something about monitoring this must be in the law.
You can tape any person and anything unless there's a "sensible expectation of personal privacy." There's no such "reasonable expectation" on the job.
In this case of it being in their own house, I think they are legally enabled to tape in their house.
You can moniter the nanny as long as it's not in the baby-sitter's bedroom or while they are in the restroom. This applies in all 50 states.
Things like this make me actually terrified to hire a babysitter if I ever decide to have kids one day. I had 3 baby sitters maturing. Two of them were great and one in certain was the sweetest girl in the world. However, among them beat the shit from me and my siblings until my parents discovered the bruises. Constantly have lots of nanny web cams concealed in your home! If they are old adequate to understand, and concern your kids about violent habits. We reside in a frightening world!
This is why I do not use others outside of immediate family, this is sickening.
Ya however household wont let household continue this abuse. At least not my family.
Full-time nannies are not cheap. In the DC area they cost $40,000 (in after tax take-home pay, which is then taxed as soon as again when paid out). It's more affordable to stay house.
What a criminal! I hope she gets what she deserves. Years in prison and not be allowed to babysit once again in her life. She even lied by denying that she abused bad kid.
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